As many FA's (Fat Admirers-ahh I hate this word, but many use it) around the world, when I was young, I was never sure about what I liked in a woman. I remember the a few girls caught my eye when I was in high school, but it wasn't until college that I had my first memorable experience with a girl. She also happened to be plus sized, and she came on to me first. I was very excited about the interest she expressed in me, but when I became involved with her, I felt a great deal of shame because my friends would make fun of her. Young people can be very cruel, and they basically just conform with society. It wasn't until tens years latter that I completely came to terms with what I like, and I basically said f*** it, I don't care who knows. So my message to everyone is, the sooner you realize what you like, the happier you will be. Who really cares what your friends or family thinks anyway. As some may remember, there was a "American Dad" episode that dealt with this exact same issue.